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Buna Lama, trafficked by the monk of the Lama monastery where she
worked for years as a domestic worker, was exploited in a Bombay brothel
till AIDS made her return to Nepal.
THE
NEPAL-BOMBAY SEX TRADE
Sapana’s fight against
girl
trafficking in Nepal
Buna
Lama, trafficked by the monk of the Lama monastery where she
worked for years as a domestic worker, was exploited in a Bombay
brothel till AIDS made her return to Nepal.
By
Chelo
Alvarez
Photography by Jennifer Beckman
First
appeared in Planeta Humano magazine, Spain, in Spanish in 1999.
What follows is a translation.
Sapana was kidnapped from a tiny village in the Himalayas when she was
17, and forced into prostitution in Bombay until she managed to
escape four years later. At 23, she leads Shakti Samuha,
an organization based in Katmandu to help stop the trafficking
of girls for prostitution on the so-called Tin Road. Not
only does she have to face mafias and political corruption, but
also the ignorance and taboos that forbid talking about sexual
abuse. However, Sapana has taken some traffickers to court
and is ready to speak up so that what she went through does not
happen ever again.

Poster by INHURED International on trafficking
prevention
Like
Bombay, Sapana has changed her name. But the
difference between this fragile young woman from the remote
hills of Sindhupalchowk, in the Himalayas, and Mumbai, the city
known up to now as Bombay, lies in her determination to change.
For Sapana, Bombay is synonymous with hell on earth: she is one of
about 7,000 women that every year find themselves crawling along
the busy “Tin Road,” the path to prostitution. The
whole world seems to insist on viewing this bay favorably, as
shown by the name given to it by the Portuguese four hundred
years ago (bom baim for ‘good bay’), reveals how
difficult it is to change habits and, particularly, beliefs.
To blame Bombay for being one of the world’s largest hubs of
child sex trade is not enough. While it is true that
Bombay decided to leave euphemisms behind and commend itself to
Mumba Devi, the local goddess, by taking on her name, that
amounts to a small first step. The second one would be to
acknowledge that the Kamathipura or the Falkland Road
neighborhoods, are cages in which huddle
over 100,000 young women who hope for
a magic wand that will erase their past. Before Bombay
continues to undertake violent raids, before it creates just one
more rehab center of uncertain future, the people’s conscience
must be transformed. And if Mumbai and its child sex trade
ring continues to gaze at its own navel amid the waters of its
seven islands, Sapana’s goal will remain to alter the way
her people think: “They say that they sell us because of the
poverty. But I think what takes so many women there is
ignorance.” Sapana, together with a dozen other young women
repatriated from India, has created the grass-roots organization
Shakti Samuha (Power Group). Shakti Samuha is not just
another NGO (non-governmental organization) fighting in
isolation to stop trafficking in Nepal. Its value resides
in its raison d’être: young women forced into prostitution
that have turned their pasts of suffering into a tool to forge a
decent present.
At
16, Sapana’s family arranged her marriage to her uncle.
One
year later, some distant relatives kidnapped her
and
sold her to a brothel in Bombay.
The
first day Sapana invited us to her new home in the outskirts of
Katmandu, it was a Saturday, the holy day of the week in Nepal,
a day devoted to bathing and laundry. WOREC, Women’s
Rehabilitation Center, which also houses the headquarters of
Shakti Samuha, is Sapana’s new home. In the terrace where
she received us, colorful saris were drying in the sun. A
few women were applying henna to their hair, others were
painting arabesques on their hands. It felt like a regular
Saturday at a college dorm, except that these students had
written most of their lessons in sweat and blood.
Sapana, 23, does not start telling her life story from the
beginning. She begins by relating how difficult it has
been for her to take the traffickers to court. She’s
very proud of this despite the fact that, among other things, it
meant she would not to be able to return to her village. Sapana is one of the few exceptions to the rule, as most young
women don’t dare file suit or they fail the first time they
try. “The first time I testified, the police officers
laughed at me and told me why bother, who was going to believe
me, what was I going to achieve, a mere girl faced with a
network of dealers with money and power.” But nothing could
stop her and, although three of her traffickers are still free,
one other is now in jail.
Anjana
Shakya is Director of Development and Women’s Rights at
INHURED International (International Institute for Human Rights,
Environment and Development). She graduated in anthropology from
Smith University, in the United States, and today is an expert
on women’s issues in Nepal and trafficking in child
prostitution in South Asia. Her speaking engagements
include international forums and the United Nations. It
was Shakya who lead us to Sapana and Shakti Samuha and the one who acted as Spana's translator. “The underworld has created a
fund to bail out every trafficker or pimp that goes to
prison,” notes Shakya. “A mix of poverty and
corruption is what gives rise to trafficking,” says Jeannine
Guthrie, whose research lead to Human Rights Watch/Asia’s
report Rape for Profit, the most in-depth study published
on the subject. In fact, most dealers get support from the
politicians in their district. Nepal is one of the poorest
countries in the world, with a population of 20 million and a
60% male unemployment rate. Even though the country became a
democracy in 1990, the feudal system is deeply rooted,
traffickers know that politicians need money for campaigns, and
the police are poorly paid. Everyone but the young women
benefits from the sex trade.
TIN
ROOFS

In
the district of Sindhupalchowk, on the slopes of the Himalayas,
northwest of Kathmandu, corrugated tin roofs are a symbol of
social status. Some of the young women who were kidnapped
or beguiled away from their villages only to end up in
Bombay’s houses of ill repute, return years later as madames
of their own brothels, covered in gold and flamboyant saris.
They hustle to roof their huts with the tin that already shines
in the houses of those who sold them.
The
house on wheels
Sapana was 17 when she fell prey to the trade. She was the
youngest of four in a farming family overwhelmed by the abuse of
power on the part of the landowners in Sindhupalchowk. Her
family could only afford to send her to school until the age of
14. At 16 her family married her to her uncle. Her
father died on her wedding day and from then on a series of
unlucky events swept her to the underworld of Bombay, 1,500
miles west toward the Indian Ocean. “I used to go out in
the forest every day with a group of women neighbors, for
firewood and forage. But that day I was by myself. I
heard something and thought it was the soldiers, since I had
knowingly entered the military zone, where both the forage and
firewood are better.” Other poacher foragers from her
area used the same hideouts, so she wasn’t surprised to find
people in the nearest one. But these people turned out to
be distant relatives that had been hounding her for months,
offering her a good job in the city. “When I refused to
go with them once again, they snatched my sickle, threw my load
downhill and tied my hands with the belt used to carry the load.
Then they force-fed me a coconut-and-sugar based white paste and
by the time I woke up I was in a huge house. When I looked
out the window I got very scared because I’d never seen a
windowpane before. I asked at once what that long, noisy
moving thing across the street was. ‘A train,’ they
answered, and I stared at that house on wheels, horrified.”
They were now hundreds of miles south, in Gorakhpur, India, a
‘dress up’ stop where the traffickers ‘groom’ the young
women, feeding and dressing them up so they look presentable
when they get to Bombay.
Kidnappings
such as Sapana’s are quite frequent. It is also true,
however, that a great number of women leave more or less of
their own accord. One has to see this region with one’s
own eyes in order to understand that without electricity or
roads, people live in a very simple world where good is
symbolized by a good harvest, and evil—a lesser one—by the
destruction that the monsoon brings.

NGOs have posted signs at bus stations warning
of the dangers of trafficking.
Don’t sell your
body
Because
of their naïveté the young girls can only picture cities as
wondrous, futuristic places where evil does not exist.
Many parents know their daughters will end up in India, but in
domestic jobs, or so they think. A single annual harvest
does not go too far, so the majority has no choice but to
migrate to the capital in search of basics during the summer
months, the so-called ‘hunger months.’ This forced migration
is known as lahur, a tradition popularized by the
seasonal recruiting of Gurkhas by the British Army.
“It’s
not true that parents sell their daughters to be prostituted,”
argues Kumari Gurung, a 38-year-old trafficking activist.
Gurung is the secretary of Maila Atma Nirbarta Kendra (Women’s
Self-Reliance Center) which we visited with Sapana in Melamchi Pul,
a village in the heart of Sindhupalchowk, a six hour drive,
including three hours on a dirt road, north of Katmandu.
“They are snatched by traffickers. If the families
themselves send them there, they do it thinking they’ll work
in a factory or as domestics.” Fathers or brothers entrust or
‘sell’ the young women to ‘employment agents’. The
agents exchange promises of marriages or jobs in the big cities
for laughable amounts of money (from 200 to 2,000 Nepalese
rupees, or $3 to $20 US dollars.) Through the glassless
windows of the mud building where we sat with Gurung, she
pointed out over the tin roofs to Melamchi Pul. It is in this
village where a famous brothel owner, who controls over 500
young women in Bombay, had landed a while ago in a helicopter.
Undoubtedly dazzled, six girls had followed her when she
returned to India.
We found many girls from the Chhetri caste (the highest
after the Brahmin) in the Melamchi Pul school, but none
from the poorest ethnic groups, as schooling among the poorest
is restricted to boys, and girls end up becoming the family’s
beast of burden. “The low status of women in Nepal is
the key to the problem,” explains Shakya. “When the
birth of a girl is announced, everyone offers their
condolences.”
While we were drinking the sweet and milky Nepalese tea, the
Chhetri schoolgirls started to crowd together at the door, and
we invited them in. Sapana quickly improvised a cultural
workshop. Suddenly, she wasn’t a prostitute or a victim
anymore, but someone strong with something important to convey:
“Do you know what trafficking is all about? Do you know how
AIDS gets passed on?” Forgetting the caste difference, Durga
Dulas, a 15-year-old Chhetri, answers very respectfully
confessing that she has heard about the girl trade but does not
know anyone that has left the village because of it. She also
believes you can contract AIDS by eating from the same plate.
These young women know about Mumbai, also known as Bollywood,
the Mecca of Indian cinema, solely from soap opera musicals.
Katmandu is the promise of a paid job at a carpet loom.
But garment factories and carpet looms have become key locations
for the recruiting or kidnapping of girls for the sex trade.
Forty percent of the 300 sex slaves interviewed in 1994 by the
Nepalese NGO CWIN had been purchased in carpet factories of the
Katmandu Valley. There, 80 % of workers, children and
adults alike, belong to the Tamang ethnic group, one of the
poorest in Nepal and the one most in demand by Bombay’s
underworld. Women of Burmese-Tibetan minority groups, the
Tamang, Sherpa, Lama, and Gurung, are prized as the most
beautiful because of their ivory-colored skin and Oriental
features.
What nobody knows, because no one dares speak up, is the life
that awaits these girls and young women as sex slaves. And
that’s exactly what Sapana wants to explain. “If I go
there I won’t have to endure the monsoon,’ think the girls,
‘I’ll just stay in a room and make a living that way,’ but
they have no idea what ‘that way’ is about.”
Initially, Sapana got daily beatings by the garwhali
(brothel keeper) when she refused to please the men. But
after one month of physical and mental torture she gave up and
started working. Another type of torture awaited her: she
had to endure all sorts of humiliations by the customers,
including having abortion against their will.
It’s
not easy to speak the truth and there are no recent or reliable
statistics on which to prove that truth. Even the other
women at Shakti Samuha turned their back on Sapana for having
disclosed too many details to us. To be subjected to the
lowest degradation amounts to losing faith in humankind.
“I couldn’t trust anyone anymore,” says Sapana. “In
the worst moments, I would pray to God, ‘Please, take me out
of here.’ For me, humans were no more than animals. You
can’t see them otherwise when they treat you as if you were
one.” However, Sapana is not alone: “I felt like a wilted
flower, but today, thanks to people like Shakya and other
friends that supported us, I feel I’m starting to come back
home.”

Chelo Álvarez
interviews a sex worker in a brothel in Sonagachi, Calcutta’s
red light district, with the help of a social worker/interpreter
In
1997, a justice launched a harsh attack against prostitution,
consequently the Bombay police “freed” 458 women from the
brothels (215 of whom were Nepalese.) Sapana was among the
128 that dared to return to their country. Sixty percent
of them were HIV positive.
Sapana and the other young women in Shakti Samuha carry out the
majority of their trafficking prevention activities in
Katmandu’s garment factories. They have visited thirty
plants and shared their experiences with the women working
there. “It wasn’t that easy to go into the shops and
be approved by the owners,” she says, “but they're used to
us now.” In the garment factories Sapana and her young colleagues
deny any promise of a better-paid job. They explain how
they can end up being sold to brothel owners for the
astronomical sum of 15,000 to 55,000 Indian rupees, which will
take years and years of sex work to repay. Nor do the
women ever know the price paid for them, as upon arrival, they
are just told they must work an indefinite number of years to
repay it and many times the trade does not stop there.
There
are ‘houses’ of
different
categories: for girls ‘to be tamed’ (true training centers),
and for those ‘already tamed’ or ‘fine’ young women, who
can go to hotels and are often ‘promoted’, that is, sold
time and again. The girls don’t receive a salary, they
live off tips (as low as two to five rupees) from the 10 to 30
daily clients. Instead of diminishing, their debt only
increases since the garwhali does not forgive payments
(or their interest) for visits to the doctor or AIDS tests,
which some clients require, even though the women don’t know
what AIDS is, nor the purpose of such tests.
Once AIDS symptoms are apparent, or lab tests claim the young
woman is HIV positive, she’s immediately cast out. The
majority never finds out why. “At first I’d get boils
on my face and a high fever,” says Buna Lama. “ I’d break
my piggy bank and with 13 or 14 rupees I’d get an injection
that made me feel better, but at the end I got so sick I
couldn’t even get up. A Nepalese shaman that used to
visit us told me that the snakes in my house were possessed with
rage and that I should go back in order to appease them.
So my owner gave me 500 rupees—the other girls one or two
each— and asked me never to come back.” Buna Lama is now 36
and has AIDS. Buna was sold to a brothel in Bombay by the
very lama of the monastery where she took refuge from a
childhood of abuse and misery. She had worked for eight
years as the lama’s domestic. Wretched and ill, she
returned to Nepal 22 months after having being sold.

Buna Lama, after speaking at the Beijing Women’s Conference in 1995.
Women
from ethnic groups such as the Lama or Tamang are in most demand
in the sex trade. The women are held as the most beautiful
because of their ivory-colored skin and Oriental features.
Buna
had no idea she had AIDS until she was admitted to a hospital in
Katmandu. She weighed 75 pounds when Shanta Sapkota picked
her up and took her to the Shanti Rehabilitation Center she had
created for displaced women.
Younger
and younger girls are being sold in the sex trade and AIDS seems
to be the reason behind it. According to the report Rape
for Profit, the average age of trafficked girls in the 80s
ranged between 14 and 16; in the mid 90s between 10 and 14.
Customers believe the younger the girls, the more unlikely they
will be HIV positive.
When
in 1997 an Indian justice launched a harsh attack against
Bombay’s prostitutes, blaming them for the AIDS epidemic that
was affecting the city, the police ‘freed’ 458 women, 215 of
which were Nepalese. Sapana was one of them.
Twice before she had been brought back to the brothel after a
raid, but that particular time the bribes didn’t work.
Of the 215 Nepalese women, 128 dared to go back to their country
but some, rejected by their own families or incapable of fitting
back into the community, reverted to their former life. Of
those that returned to Nepal, 60% were HIV positive.
Once
in Nepal they have to start from scratch. “They don’t
let us take anything with us, not even the few things we bought
with the tips earned by selling our heart’s and body’s
blood,” grieves Sapana. She once owned a gold chain, a
present from an Arab client she was fond of: “[He was] the
only one that didn’t ask me to do weird stuff. I was
with him for six months. As he was sick, he just wanted me
to take care of him. He would take me to his hotel room
where I would prepare tea, give him massages and administer his
medicines. He even introduced me to his wife and children
when they came to visit him.” Some say that if Bombay were to
shut its doors to men from the Persian Gulf it would have to
close down its brothels.
Sapana was lucky, her family welcomed her back with open arms.
Her husband-uncle even invited her to come back home, but he had
remarried her cousin and Sapana didn’t want to inconvenience
them. “Besides, she explains, the family of those that
sold me lives right across the street. She has, above all,
a great undertaking before her: to unravel the Tin Road.
In
1997, INHURED International organized in Kathmandu the follow-up
to the 1996 Beijing Women’s Conference. Focusing on girl
trafficking for prostitution purposes, the workshop successfully
attracted ex-traffickers, parents of sold or kidnapped girls,
lawyers, doctors, teachers and numerous survivors (trafficked
women who are now free.) It was there that Sapana discovered
her mission. “Up to that point I had limited myself to
learning how to sew… I was lacking confidence to do something
else…” INHURED provided that strength encouraging Sapana
to take on the leadership of the fight against trafficking.
At first hesitant, Sapana is today fully engaged. Shakti
Samuha was founded in 1997 and in May 1998 the group was able to
raise the first funds to set up a women’s shelter. The
latest INHURED International project in which Sapana is involved is
the publication of a comic book on trafficking, which will be
used as an outreach tool for rural areas.
On
our way back from Sindhupalchowk, in order to celebrate our last
day together, we went to have dinner to a popular restaurant
catering to westerners. We decided to have Sapana face her
last challenge: eat a pasta salad and a huge steak. It had
more calories than her normal diet gives her in one month.
But Sapana did not give up, she went on fighting with fork and
knife and said: “How can I leave anything on my dish
when there are women who continue to have to sell their bodies
for food?” At that very moment I could see in her cinnamon
eyes a glimpse of her old home, shack #104, 11th
Street, Kamathipura, Bombay, the good bay.
©1999
Text by Chelo Alvarez ©1999 Photography by
Jennifer Beckman Translated by
Susa Oñate
EPILOGUE
We first met Sapana Tamang in December 1998.
In 1999, after this article was published, Planeta Humano editors awarded Sapana a grant given to individuals who excel in making a difference in this world.
INHURED International released the comic book and is now used as an outreach tool in schools around the country to educate children on the trafficking issue.
When I met Sapana again in December 2002, this time to interview her for the documentary Tin Girls, she brought her 18-month-old son with her. Sapana had gone back to her village and remarried. Besides caring for her husband's family and doing the numerous tasks of a village woman (fetching water, wood, and cattle forage, as well as cooking,) she also presides over her village's chapter of an organization for the improvement of the condition of women.
Sapana lived with her son in a small village in the Sindhupalchowk area, North of Kathmandu. She was an active member of the community, in charge of several women's project. Being a committed advocate herself, she told me with great determination: "I want to offer my son the best education so that he can become a human rights lawyer."
March 2004 UPDATE
Late in 2003, I met with Sapana in Kathmandu. She was forced to move from her village. Three village women, relatives of Sapana's traffickers, blaming her for the traffickers long stay in prison, beat her so badly that cause Sapana, pregnant with a second child, to have a miscarriage.
In March 2004 in Kathmandu, the Masala Project, along with the organizations Shakti Samuha and Manch, helped Sapana start her own income-generation project: a grocery shop.
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